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The 'non-stereotypical' woman.




Women in india are taught that marriage is a business transaction, wherein you can exchange your education, status, marry a suitable guy and live your life happily after.

“ Beta, why don’t you get married?” , “Get a direction in life?, your husband will take care of you” are some of the common phrases to be heard. The hypocritical society will tell you to be independent, smart and then will bash you up for being ambitious and strong minded.

Do not succumb to the pressure of getting married ever. An accomplished life partner is not your step to success, your success ,lies in your hands, do not let the society fill you up with self doubt and the thought that women are suppose to do only certain things in life . You are above and beyond that. A woman is an all rounder. Your marital status doesn’t define you. Being unmarried and sassy is the new status and can be handled by few people only. It’s a tag that Indian society might not help you live with it but to do something big in life, firstly fight the stereotypes, fight your fears, life is not what society projects, its what you what it to mean for yourself.

Achieve your dreams, go travel, and yes you do not need a male to validate your existence. You can be single and happy. Marry, when you want. Make your career choices. Be free in your mind and heart. In the end, Its your life, you make it or break it.

You get to decide your vision of your life. Not fitting in this small glass of society ain’t your fault.

Let life unfold.

Let it unravel.

Its you who matters.



Love,

xoxo

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