We are so enthralled by the concept of "love". So overwhelmed and blinded by the idea of true love and soulmate. Our society revolves around fairy tales enchanting the young girls into believing that there is a prince charming for you, waiting somewhere to rescue you from the world, to protect you , to love you with all his virtue and valor.
How do you not expect a young girl to fantasize about this prince charming with so many perfections and heroic persona, I mean I would love to date one.
Unfortunately, the fairy tales are only illusion's of a hypothetical world. The real world does not harbor perfect people, we are all flawed.
On the contrary, females are fighting for equality and here we are teaching young girls tales of prince charming crap. I think these stories should be altered. Females must understand that no prince charming exists, everybody has flaws and yes no one, absolutely no-one can protect you from this cruel world. You have to get hurt, to understand whom to trust. You need to love, to understand whom to loathe. Until you are going to love yourself, you will not be able to love someone else whole wholeheartedly and this my friend comes quite late in life.
The entire teenage tenure of a girl is spent in self-doubt, about accepting who she is. In this entire whirl wind of confusion, she meets a boy, as young as naive as she is. He compliments her and tells her that she is beautiful, re-affirming her doubts about herself. This makes her believe, he is the one, the true love of her love. Until one understands their own worth, life doesn't reward them with people appreciative of that. Do not love someone because they treat you right and makes your self-doubt culminate into confidence. Love someone for who they really are, for their ideologies, intellect, and for the authenticity of their character. Most importantly, love yourself first and accept the other person with all their qualities, good or bad. The moment you feel, that you can't accept them, move on, for you might just turn them into another you.
Above all, you can love anyone, its a matter of mindset. I just read this quote few days ago which stated that you may talk to a person for years and may feeling nothing but obligation towards them, sometimes heart strikes a chord with a person you have just met, who makes your heart sink. Relationships are not based on tongue, but the feeling.
How do you not expect a young girl to fantasize about this prince charming with so many perfections and heroic persona, I mean I would love to date one.
Unfortunately, the fairy tales are only illusion's of a hypothetical world. The real world does not harbor perfect people, we are all flawed.
On the contrary, females are fighting for equality and here we are teaching young girls tales of prince charming crap. I think these stories should be altered. Females must understand that no prince charming exists, everybody has flaws and yes no one, absolutely no-one can protect you from this cruel world. You have to get hurt, to understand whom to trust. You need to love, to understand whom to loathe. Until you are going to love yourself, you will not be able to love someone else whole wholeheartedly and this my friend comes quite late in life.
The entire teenage tenure of a girl is spent in self-doubt, about accepting who she is. In this entire whirl wind of confusion, she meets a boy, as young as naive as she is. He compliments her and tells her that she is beautiful, re-affirming her doubts about herself. This makes her believe, he is the one, the true love of her love. Until one understands their own worth, life doesn't reward them with people appreciative of that. Do not love someone because they treat you right and makes your self-doubt culminate into confidence. Love someone for who they really are, for their ideologies, intellect, and for the authenticity of their character. Most importantly, love yourself first and accept the other person with all their qualities, good or bad. The moment you feel, that you can't accept them, move on, for you might just turn them into another you.
Above all, you can love anyone, its a matter of mindset. I just read this quote few days ago which stated that you may talk to a person for years and may feeling nothing but obligation towards them, sometimes heart strikes a chord with a person you have just met, who makes your heart sink. Relationships are not based on tongue, but the feeling.
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